November 2021 Newsletter How are you spending your dash ?
How are you spending your dash?
As I was getting ready to write my November newsletter, I rediscovered one of my all-time favorite poems, “The Dash,” which was written by Linda Ellis in 1996. It must have been meant to be, because this poem reflects my chosen topic — the fact that every second of our lives is important.
Now, more than ever, we need to remind ourselves of what we are capable of and realize that we can actually live the dream we think about so often. If you want to be a better employee… you can! If you want to be a better manager… you can! If you want to be a top-performing salesperson… you can! If you want to be a world-class entrepreneur… you can! You are in control of how you live out your life, and you can accomplish anything you set your mind to do.
“Every achiever that I have ever met says, ‘My life turned around when I began to believe in me.’” — Dr. Robert Schuller
The first step toward reaching your potential is to ask yourself this question: “How do I want to live my life, and what do I believe I am capable of?” If you know you have characteristics that need to be changed, when are you planning to do it? I am going to dive deeper into this subject in The Van Deeb podcast. Please go to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Vandeeb.com, or your favorite podcast platform to subscribe to The Van Deeb Podcast (if you haven’t already subscribed) so you can be one of the first to listen to it when it comes out in November.
Most of you are familiar with “The Dash” and have read it many, many times, just like I have. However, if you know of anyone who has not read it yet, please forward this newsletter to them. This poem may be just what they need to read today.
By Linda Ellis
I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
from the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of her birth
and spoke of the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth,
and now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own,
the cars, the house, the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard:
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.
So when your eulogy is being read,
with your life’s actions to rehash,
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent your dash?
By Linda Ellis, Copyright © 2020 Inspire Kindness, thedashpoem.com
This poem is certainly thought-provoking, isn’t it? One of my biggest takeaways is the importance of showing respect to others. Actions speak louder than words, and we need to show respect for other people not just through our words but also through our actions.
When your mindset is in a good place and you are focusing on what really matters, everything will fall into place in your career and in your personal life. Your goals will become more easily attainable, your relationships will improve, and so on.
You have the God-given ability to be the person Linda Ellis wrote about. Why wait?
If not you, then who? And if not now, then when?
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