MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER, AUTHOR & SUCCESS COACH

August 2025 GOOD News Praise people , raise people

Praise People, Raise People

 

 

Have you ever noticed that someone’s entire demeanor can be transformed when they’re recognized for doing something well? A simple “Great job,” “Thank you,” or “I’m proud of you” can light up a person’s soul. I believe that when you praise people, you raise people—and that’s something we should strive to do every single day.

 

Whether you’re a business owner, a colleague, a friend, or a stranger in line at the coffee shop, you have the power to lift someone’s spirit. Words of encouragement don’t cost anything, yet their value is priceless. It doesn’t take much time or effort to tell someone they’re doing a great job or that they made a positive impact, yet the effects of praise can linger for a lifetime. Why? Because praise tells people they matter, and we all want to feel like we matter.

 

We live in a world where criticism comes quickly and compliments are often held back. But what if we flipped that script? What if we started being intentional about recognizing the good in others? When we acknowledge effort, attitude, and excellence, we’re not just making people feel good, we’re helping them become even better.

 

Think about the last time someone praised you. Didn’t it make you want to keep going, do more, and become even better? Praise is the spark that ignites self-worth, motivation, and purpose. And the best part is that it multiplies. When you lift people’s spirits, they tend to do the same for those around them.

 

Praising others is very important to me because I know the impact that it makes. Years ago, I decided to find something good to say about everybody I talked to. Over time, praise became a habit, and then before I knew it, it came naturally to me. Now I don’t even have to think about it… when I see people I just automatically say something that will brighten their day or make them feel better about themselves. And in the end, their reaction makes me feel good about myself as well.

 

So here’s my challenge to you this week: Each day, find at least one person to praise. Be sincere, be specific, and be present. Let someone know that they’re seen, appreciated, and valued.

 

When you’re walking down the hall at your workplace, instead of looking at the carpet or checking your phone, make eye contact with the person coming toward you and smile or at least say hello. What if that’s the only nice thing that happens to them all day, and you are responsible for it? Wouldn’t that make you feel like you made a difference in that person’s life?

 

There is no down side to building people up, because when we praise people, we raise people.

 

And when we raise people, we raise the world.

 

 

What People in the Audience are Saying…

With Van's passion, humor and experience you can be assured of one thing- your audience is going to get fired-up, built-up, and fully charged –up. As an entrepreneur at the top of his game Van is in the unique position of being able to "talk the talk" because he has "walked the walk". Over the years he has been a great inspiration to me and my staff. Van is a speaker with charisma, humility and impact and he's a difference maker in the lives of the people he touches…"

—George Akers // President, First Mortgage Corp.

I wanted to thank you for coming and speaking with our company today. I thought your presentation was awesome! I was really motivated and inspired by your thoughts and ideas. I will use this motivation to grow my business and my personal life.”

—Justin Pauls // Realtor, Tampa, Florida

We are delighted you will be accepting the award for Omaha’s Top 25 fastest growing companies. Congratulations on your outstanding growth and we wish you continued success.”

—Tracey Fortina // Omaha Chamber of Commerce

Thank you for running such a class act company. It is an honor and a pleasure to be associated with someone such as yourself. I know you are probably one of the most respected businessmen in the region.”

—Dustin Talacko // Realtor, Omaha, Nebraska

Congratulations on writing “Selling from the heart” and thank you for sharing a copy with me. Your class has been one of the most enjoyable classes I’ve ever taken. Your enthusiasm and passion for your work are awesome. But the most refreshing part of the class was your delightful sense of humor. Thank you again for being a fantastic teacher.”

—Linda Reismeiler // Student at Randall School of Real Estate, Omaha, Nebraska

Kudos to you, Van, for reaching a major goal. But more than that...For successfully building one of Omaha’s best companies from scratch and making it thrive even in less than ideal market conditions. You have realized the American Dream...And brought it home to many, many others. My best to you!”

—Todd Andrews, Anchor and Producer, KETV Omaha

Having you here again was such a blessing to so many! As I looked at the pictures, I could see just how interested each and every person was in what you had to say!

This has been such a gift to our agents when they need it the most. The fact that you come, you are so genuine and caring, you are so honest, you are not trying to sell anything and your passion to help each and every person believe in themselves and become the best they can be is HUGE! The timing is perfect for us all helping and caring about each other, so, thank YOU from the bottom of my heart for giving of yourself to help all of us!”

—Carolyn Summerton // First Mortgage Company of Idaho

I enjoyed your seminar and its focus. I was on the fence whether or not to attend and decided why not? I could have sat through an all day session if there was one, usually I end up at the seminars that start with a focus and quickly go astray. I found with yours time flew by too fast and it was already time to go but I wasn’t ready to go.”

—Scott Asbill, CDPE // Associate Broker, Realtor